My Weekend Experience

My weekend was nice. Well, kinda sorta. Ok, so, it wasn't ALL that! But it was eventful.

**Singing: It's Friday and I'm ready to swing ... pick up my girls and hit the party scene ...(Aaliyah's 1st single "Back and Forth")**

Ok, so I didn't go out with my girls but I did have a date. How did the date go you wonder? Hell, if I knew I would tell you. I cancelled ... lol. I know I ain't right but I was tired and didn't really feel like entertaining this 'consistent' (I say that 'cause he's not new) prospect. He's cool and even invited me to go to Puerto Rico with him (all expenses paid) but I just didn't feel like doing the small talk ... the "get to know you a little better" talk. So I asked if we could reschedule. And his ole sweet self said yeah ... and that in the meantime he would be thinking of some place to take me for Memorial Day b/c I have time off. Aww!! I know ... but I ain't feeling that either. lol.

**It's Saturday (I can't think of a song associated with Saturday)**

I wake up to some HEAVY and PAINFUL cramps so I lounged around the house for a minute. I got up and went to the hospital to visit my co-worker who just gave birth to her first baby. Aw ... the lil white baby was cute ... pretty eyes and a lot of hair. I was thrilled cause I love newborn babies. And being around her made me realize even more ... I want some damn children! lol.

Anyway, I left there and proceeded to Olive Garden to meet my grandma and aunt for lunch (for Mother's Day). Needless to say, that was the highlight of my day. Let me TELL you about them heffas ... they hooked me up with our server. That's right! These older women interrogated the man and based off of his answers they quickly suggested we exchange numbers and get to know each other. My grandma asked if he would like to take me out (while I'm holding my head down in embarassment) ... he said he would love to ... and we exchanged numbers. Now, ole boy is cute ... and caramel ... so I ain't mad at that. I'm mad at my grandmother trying to play matchmaker. But then again she's been pressuring me a lot lately about marriage and kids. Grandma, how I'ma do that with NO prospect in sight!!

After lunch I took my grandma shopping for her Mother's Day gift. And she enjoyed that.

I came home and started getting my mind right to go to the Mark with my girls. Then my cramps started hitting me harder. At first, I was like, I am a strong woman I can do this. And my cramps showed me just who the boss was. So, I opted out of going to the club ... to get my flirt on! I was very disappointed 'cause I need some new horses in my stable ... lol. But as always EVERYTHING happens for a reason.

My 'friend' ... fuck it ... my future 'husband' (lol ... that shit is funny) ... called me to check on me. We chatted and I told him I wasn't hanging out with my crew. He invited me to dinner with him and his son ... so I accepted and met them at the designated restaurant. As usual, we had a good time ... just easygoing fun! His son sat on one side of the booth ... coloring ... and rolling his eyes at me (lol ... not really ... I have to embellish for entertainment purposes) ... actually he was paying me NO attention ... I gets no love from him except when I'm LEAVING ... WTF?! We sat on the other side ... under each other as always. After dinner, I kissed him goodbye and kissed his son goodbye as well (against his wishes). I got in my car and left. Well, as I was driving I started thinking about how good I feel when I'm with him and how much I enjoy my time with him and his son. So, I called him to tell him ... he invited me over for a spell ... I wasn't sure how to interpret it ... so I didn't ... I just answered how I wanted to ... I said yes.

I went over to his place ... and walked right in ... cause I knew the door was unlocked and he was waiting on me! Y'all I love him ... I'm so comfortable with him! Ok ... back to the script ... I went to check on his son ... and he actually gave me a goodnight kiss (aw!). After that I laid on the couch with him (not the son ... the daddy), we blazed (I think I did), and we watched Comicview reruns. And as we were laying there he would place his hand under my top and rub my back or my waist. And when I tell you it felt so good ... believe me ... It did ... I LOVE his hands on me ... especially when he slicks my hair back ... I love him ... PERIOD! After a few hours I left and went home. He called to ask WHY I wasn't home yet ... lol ... I told him I stopped by McDonald's for an apple pie ... lol.

**Sunday ... Mother's Day**

Mother's Day was nice. My grandma was happy to see me. My family was there ... we grilled and acted a fool as usual. I love my family ... well my MOM's side anyway. I'll explain more about my dad's side when I have more time ... lol.

Overall, despite the few phone calls from Mr. Suffocation and the cramps, my weekend was fantastic!! It put things into more perspective for me. And I needed that!