How Do You KNOW?!

That is the question for the day: How do you know when you've found the ONE?

I've pondered this question so many times in my head ... so MANY! And while sometimes I KNOW who I'm supposed to be with I still question if God is right in his decision of making this guy my one. Or better yet, is it God who is making this decision or something/someone else.

There is a man who I love with all my heart ... I would do anything for him and his son. And my heart and my emotions tell me he's MY ONE ... yet I'm afraid b/c there are major drawbacks with the situation. For one, we've never been involved in a serious relationship. We've kicked it but never on an exclusive or committed level. Yet, the 'love' we shared/share is something I've never experienced before in my life. I've dated others and have been 'wowed' by other men but they can't fuck with him and the hold he has on my heart and soul. When I think of him, I don't see boyfriend ... I view him as my husband ... my other half ... father to my children ... love of my life ... my spiritual partner. Yet, I'm hesitant. No, there aren't options for us to be together right now ... but there will be one day. And I need to know for certain that he is the man God sent to me. Or is it my desire to love, be loved and find MY ONE that makes me feel as if HE IS THE ONE? I need to decipher between the two and find the truth.